Start To Something Good

So here we go, another blog with a title from a song. Again, I want to say that if I use song phrases they come from the song written by Daughtry.

Have you actually listened to that song? It seems pretty clear what the song is about doesn't it? I want to touch on something and have you think...yes I enjoy doing that. Never hurt did it? Thinking that is, actions can be, so be careful about your actions. Anyway, here we go.

I read a passage from a good friend's facebook page that basically stated, that some times you have let something good fall apart so something better falls together. How many times has that happened to you? I will share something with you about me. I lost my job back in February and have been unemployed since. I have had times where I got depressed about not getting a job and being turned down time after time. It stung. Most of you that know me, know that even though it was a job and I complained from time to time, I loved it. The team members, the day to day, really everything...oh yeah, the paycheck wasn't bad either. Talk about a throat punch. It was gone.

What does this have to do with good and better and that song? Sit back and I'll explain.

It was a change for me, I've always had a job...since 16. Living in Georgia was my life for the last 12 years and I liked it there. It was good. My life was good. Check it out, I didn't have that security anymore and didn't have a freaking clue of what I was going to do. Depression wasn't too far around the corner.

I moved to Asheville NC back in June (look at my older blogs about that). Oh, I failed to mention that from the age of 4 to 28 I lived in NC, Cary and Greensboro specifically. Moving away from NC back then scared me to death, but I did it and it was good in GA. Good things were in NC, then better things in GA. Good things were in GA and better things were in NC. Regardless of the state or states that's not the point. The point is, each time I moved or lost something, I had to realize that even if it stung or hurt, something better may be ahead or a start to something good. Making any sense yet? And remember, we're using my experiences to relate. You may have one different but keep in mind the theme.

This blog today isn't about me and losing my job. It's about a start to something good.

Was it a job loss? Lost love? Friend leave? Child go off to school? Scary move? May have hurt, may have scared the mess out of you. Your world was upside down wasn't it. Mine was. You probably have friends and or family that care greatly for you...I am blessed to have both.

Really Michael, where are you exactly going with this?

I also saw a board in a friend's shop that said, "It's ok to be afraid, just do not let the fear hold you back from accomplishing great things".  Very true. I know that I've been very afraid lately and almost let that fear hold me back. A great friend of mine introduced me to the song and it made me smile. I needed it. It came at the right time.

Just know that even if you're afraid, you will be ok. I am. Take it one day at time. Why don't we make a pact with ourselves to know it's ok to be afraid but a start to something good is right around the corner.

My Christmas Thought

I’ve been thinking for a few days now about writing a blog about Christmas. So I started doing some research about Christmas; looking online to get historical information, religious information and just some really interesting stuff about Christmas. Why am I doing this? I have been compelled to do it. Some would say I’m crazy and what am I gaining for doing this. I want to share what I’ve found and get you to think.

Before this goes any further, I want everyone to know that my belief is very simple…I believe that Christmas is Jesus Christ’s birthday (date and year really not too important to me). Do keep in mind that the most important thing to me about Christmas is Jesus’ birthday and the Rev. Billy Graham said, “The very purpose of Christ’s coming into the world was that He might offer up His life as a sacrifice for the sins of men. He came to die. This is the heart of Christmas.”

My family and I do exchange gifts (some say exchanging gifts date back to the Roman festival of Saturnalia), set up a Christmas tree, decorate the home, eat great food and give to one another. I found commentary say that those actions are from pagan rituals and was used as an act to convert non-believers to Christianity (which I have found to be interesting to read, but do not deter my belief and do not dictate how I spend and celebrate Christmas). I found out that Saint Nicholas was a real person, a bishop of Myra (part of modern day Turkey) and how he put coins in shoes left out for him. A gift giver some might say. Did you know that Santa Claus originated from the Dutch word of Sinterklaas?

Ok so now you learned a little history…or maybe you already knew it. If you didn’t, you just learned something. Did you know that Christmas wasn’t a holiday in America until the late 1800s? So why does that matter? Guess it is just another piece of history I wanted to share with you. I personally went deeper and will not go into the differences of Julian vs. Gregorian calendars and why December 25^th isn’t thought to be the actual date of Christ’s birth…I was not around then so I cannot say one way or the other. Again, date not important to me.

I asked friends on Facebook to comment as well. Resounding comments…Christ’s birthday, sharing, goodwill, love and peace. What does that tell you? I read another quote from an anonymous author, “I’m all for love and peace, but how do you have those without the love of Christ? If you’re drawn to giving, think about what Christ gave to us.” Starting to see the trend here?  How about what one of our past presidents, Calvin Coolidge said, “Christmas is not nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas.” Really? Plenteous in mercy? Doesn’t God do that for us everyday? Uh, yeah. Seeing the trend yet?

Now I did read some articles about the commercialism of Christmas. How we spend billions of dollars on gifts for family, friends, co-workers, etc. Do you remember the Christmas cartoon, “How the Grinch stole Christmas”? Keep in mind the end of the cartoon when Dr. Suess stated, “Maybe Christmas, the Grinch thought, doesn’t come from a store.” I even read something in an economic article about how gift giving is considered a deadweight loss. Wow, that article was hard to read and I cannot detail it for you. I can’t even high-level it.

Happy Holidays. Ok here we go. I get offended that we choose to say that instead of Merry Christmas. Yes, I read articles talking about winter solstice and how it is around this time of year and folks celebrate that instead of Christmas and they would rather say Happy Holidays instead. So should I say Merry Winter Solstice? I had to look up the word “holiday” for the sake of this article. Do you know what dictionary.com says the definition of that word is? I looked it up and there are a few but check this out. Holiday – a day fixed by law or custom on which ordinary business is suspended in commemoration of some event or in honor of some person.  Or a religious feast. (holy day). Now that could make us go on for pages, but I will not for the sake of space. But really, do you see the trend here?

Some of you may say that nowhere in the Bible does it say we should celebrate Christ’s birthday. I also know personally some whose religious beliefs restrict them in celebrating birthdays of anyone and yes even Jesus’. So why do it and is it wrong? I don’t believe celebrating the birth of Jesus wrong. I do it obviously because I was brought up that way. Trust me, I didn’t care to for years. Christmas meant nothing to me…none of it. I made up excuses. Guess what? That’s another blog.

Essentially, Christmas is a celebration and belief. Not the gifts, trees, parties, days off, vacations, lights, decorations, and the like. People like to celebrate Christmas because they desire to celebrate Christ’s birth or because they enjoy the trappings that have been attached to it. Is there anything wrong with exchanging gifts, putting up a tree, decorating the house, going to parties with family and friends? Absolutely not. Just be careful that they don’t become the main purpose and you make them “idols”. Remember the first two commandments.

Finally, I wish you all a Merry Christmas and hope you celebrate with me the birth of our savior Jesus Christ. If you celebrate something else, I invite you to learn about the birth of Jesus and what God has done for us. Providing the most precious gift any of else will ever need…His Son.

Something That We All Are Apart Of....A Must Read

So this evening I watched a recorded episode of The Dr. Phil Show (no rude comments please). It was about bullying. I gotta say, it tugged at my heart a lot. Many of you that know me, especially when I was a child, I was picked on. Some times to the extent of me crying. Did I tell mom and dad? I don't remember doing so. Would they have helped, knowing my parents, they would have gone to the school...so maybe that is why I didn't say anything. Now, I'm grown and understand that I have a lot to offer this world and more importantly, God has a plan for me. With that, did it hurt when it took place? Like most of you out there reading this...terribly.

Watching that show made me think that I need to share my thoughts on this topic. Now, before we go further we all understand that I am not a professional in this topic and am not in any way giving advice, just my opinion. I know someone from my younger years that specializes in this topic and I can give you contact information if you want...that is up to you.

Ok. Where am I going? Think about something for me, just for a second. Have you ever been picked on? How did you feel? Were you to the point of ending your pain? I never got that far, but it still hurt. When you were growing up, did you pick on someone? Call them names like stupid, retarded, slow, fat, and the list goes on. Did you feel good about yourself? How would you have felt if that person you were picking on, ended their life because of what you said?

Most of you that are my age, whether you were picked on or did the picking, probably have kids now. How would you feel if they were being picked on? What would you do? What about if you found out your kid was a bully. This is a big big problem. It ain't as "harmless" as it was when we were young (I used quotations because it never was or will be harmless). If you don't believe me, look up the definition of harmless. You know what, I'll do it for you.

HARMLESS is defined as, without injury; unhurt; unharmed.

Pretty much opposite of what I felt back in the day.

We're all apart of this in one way or the other. Maybe you were picked on. Maybe you did the picking. Or you may have a child doing the bullying or being bullied. Ask questions. Get involved. We need to stop the bullying. If you don't think you should get involved....remember how you felt back when it happened to you. What if it got worse and guess what folks it has...kids are killing themselves. We need to stop this act of violence. Please get involved! Thank you.

Something New

Just as the title states, that is what is going on. I have changed the blog a little and added some new features. For all of you that have followed in the past, thank you and I encourage you to continue to follow and read and explore. For you newcomers....Welcome! I hope you enjoy and come back often, oh and tell your friends.

Question...Are you readers ready for me to post pictures? The types will be depending on what you the audience suggests. So tell me.

Now for a new place to eat here in the Asheville area. Do you like fresh sandwiches, soups, salads and desserts? Of course you do, who doesn't right? There is a place you should try if you live in the area or visiting. Rev It Up Sandwich Shop. They are located at 5 Regent Park Blvd, Suite 108. Close to the Sam's off of Patton Ave.

I went there last night with Tina for dinner. Very good to say the least. Teresa, the owner, has a passion for cooking and baking. I have talked to her on several occassions before they opened and you could just see the gleam in her eyes about being open and having great food for people to enjoy. I had what is called the "Two Lane Black Top". Talk about filling and tasty. It has turkey, homemade pimento cheese, grilled bacon on ciabatta bread. Tina had the "Road King", which has ham, turkey, jalapeno havarti cheese, lettuce, tomato, and deli mustard on ciabatta bread. Both were made to order. Everything down to slicing the meats and cheeses to make the sandwich.

So are you getting hungry yet? I know I will be back.

The decor is very warm and inviting. They have a pergola built over the sandwich station and nicely decorated. Lots of car and Harley items hang on the wall...kind of leading to their menu items. Great theme.

From what I understand, they will be serving beer of many different kinds in the near future. So why not go by for a cold one? They will also be having a website soon, for all to view their complete menu.

For you out there that know me, you know I love trying new places to eat and love to tell others about places I enjoy. This is one of them. Go there, what are you waiting for? An invitation. Well Laughter Life and Food is inviting you. Now go enjoy some good food.

Daddy Ray's Sauce - You Need Some!

So there are one million plus barbecue sauces on the market right now and will be one million more in the next month or so. Why is mine different? Is that a trick question? Come on, you know the difference. I'll wait...

Hello, are you there? Did you figure it out? Here is the difference...I made it.  Now, does that make mine better than others out there or even yours? Most would say that's a personal preference. Some might think so because they know I love cooking. So this creation wouldn't surprise you.

Recently I moved to North Carolina, Asheville in case you didn't already know. I have researched, asked, and talked about the two separate worlds when it comes to what folks like in NC. Western vs. Eastern (that is all I will comment on that for now). Before moving to NC, I lived in Columbus GA. Most there enjoy sauces made with a mustard base.

Sorry, had to explain my thought process. Anyway, I made a mustard, apple cider vinegar recipe. Kind of a hybrid. I'm in the beginning process of this new sauce. Creation is pretty much done, with all kinds of spices, etc. Now bottling samples and then getting it out there. That's what this is about, introduction and feedback. I know most of you can't taste it right this minute, but if you're in Asheville you definitely can.

I would like to hear what you have to say about this sauce for what you know of it or me. Your thoughts are definitely a bonus. I will say it is very tangy and I know you will like it once you've tasted it. Oh, I will tell you about the name very soon. Please comment.

September 11, 2001 - Ten Years Later

Do you remember that day? Did you have mixed feelings that day? Did you cry, get upset, get mad? I know I experienced all those emotions. I was actually so scared, I sat down and started crying. "What in the world is going on?"

Did you lose a friend, loved one that day? If you did, your day was even harder than mine. I couldn't imagine what you went through and on this the tenth anniversary, how you are feeling today.

What about those men and women that during those chaotic times, went back up in those buildings to rescue those in need? How about those brave men and women on that plane that went down in Pennsylvania? Those men and women who helped in clean up. How about those men and women that went over seas and continue to do so in our military to continue to protect our freedom? Sacrifice? I would say so.

On this day, remember how fragile and precious life is. Take your own time in your own personal way to remember those who lost their life.  Put aside those petty differences. Let's not argue, quarrel or fight with each other. Let's define what we are today... The United States of America. God bless you all in this day of remembrance.

Laughter Life and Food: A Journey in Downtown Asheville

Laughter Life and Food: A Journey in Downtown Asheville: "This weekend I had the great pleasure of being with Tina, my brother, his wife and two daughters in Asheville. We decided to go to downtown ..."

A Journey in Downtown Asheville

This weekend I had the great pleasure of being with Tina, my brother, his wife and two daughters in Asheville. We decided to go to downtown Asheville and walk around and see the different local businesses. There were all types of shoppes, restaurants, art studios and the list goes on. I want to mention three specifically for you to know about and visit when you come to this mountain town.

The first one was "Jewels That Dance".  Very nice jewelry and some alittle pricey for me but very shiny but nothing too bling bling. If you're looking for a nice set of earrings, silver bracelet, necklace or even a very nice engagement ring, stop by there. The folks in there are very helpful and wanting to answer any questions that you may have about a certain theme or item you may be looking for to give to that special someone.

Secondly, "The Chocolate Fetish". My oldest niece, loves chocolate and really liked this place. You can watch chocolateirs making all kinds of chocolate creations. You walk in the store and your nose is suddenly rushed with the sweet smell of that elixir. All kinds. Cakes, shoes(yes shoes), fish and all kinds of truffles. Stop by there and feed that chocolate monster that we all know you have from time to time.

Finally, and one of my favorites, "The Onyx Orchard Cheese Company". Nothing too fancy, however some of the most delicious cheeses you will find this side of the Mississippi or Mason Dixon, depending on your location. Tim, the proprietor, is very friendly and will let you sample any cheese in one of the several cases he has at his location. To name a few, 2 year smoked Gouda, sage cheddar, cheddar made with Guinness and many smooth and creamy blues. If you're looking for cheese, this is definitely a place to visit. I highly recommend this place.

I will be making more posts about this area's great local businesses and I hope that when you come here, you try each and every one of them. If you need an address or phone number, please let me know. I know that you can also find some of them on Facebook. Enjoy and tell me some places you've been to here in Asheville.

My New Home - Asheville NC

It's been some time since you've heard anything from me. I moved. Yep, you knew it was coming too. As titled, this is blog will be about my new home...Asheville NC.

Let me just start with this, you haven't seen Asheville if you only visited the Biltmore Estate. Now don't get me wrong, that part is very fun to see. I saw it when I was a kid, probably in the early 80's. Living here is still very much new for me and yes I'm still looking for employment. I'm sure that will come. Let's talk more about what I've seen thus far.

Local restaurants, local stores, all kinds. Things that you wouldn't think a town in the mountains would have...but they are here. From Papa's Pizza, Universal Joint to a new not opened yet vegan place called Plant (more to come about this place). It has historic areas, artsy areas, open gardens and the list really could go on for miles. A local brew, Highland Brewing Company has great beers. Like I said, the list can go on and on.

The next time you and the family are planning a trip, come to Asheville NC. There is always something going on and you will not be disappointed. I know I will be talking more about what I see and do and I would love for you to join me. If you're in town let me know.

There was a delay, but the journey never stopped just changed locations, so Laughter Life and Food will become even more fun and interesting. Keep reading.

"Paved Paradise And Put Up A Parking Lot"

Before anything else is said, I got that phrase from a Counting Crows song. I've always liked that group. Some of you may not and that is ok too. The reason for that phrase is very simple...at least to me.

Over the last week, I've been lucky to be in NC visiting family and friends. From Asheville (surprised I know, esp with all the trips I've made here thus far), Raleigh, Cary and Apex. Many of you know that I grew up in Cary and if you didn't, you do now.

Bet you're asking what is his point?

I was in Cary for Mother's Day and with family and friends and we drove around Cary. Showing a great friend of mine the house that I grew up in...ok really just to relive my childhood. But I know she liked seeing the area. Anyway, we drove past the house on Medlin Dr. and it was tranquil to see it again. Actually started getting tears in my eyes...good thing I had on sunglasses.

There was a dead end street there that used to be woods. As kids, we played in those woods so much. Daily actually. Just ask my mom. We had dirt bike trails, forts, tree houses, played all kinds of boy games. It was awesome. This past week, I noticed it was no longer woods...it had become a parking lot. Makes me sad a little just typing that part. But then again, did those woods serve their purpose? Once we were grown up and moved on, maybe they weren't needed anymore. I like to believe they were there for me....so I could be a kid there. My point is as the title goes...it was my paradise as a kid.

Ever had one of those? I hope so. Is it still there? Mine is, in my heart. It was my childhood. Go back and visit your paradise whether physically or by your childhood memories. Share one with me, I bet your paradise was just as fun as mine.

Now I Have Leftovers....

So if you made the fish tacos like I did, you may have had leftover fish. If you didn't have any, awesome. Tell me if it was good. Knowing you, it was.

I had leftover fish and was trying to figure out what to do with the leftovers(by the way, I used tilapia).
I saw a commercial of crab cakes and starting thinking...I should do that with the leftover fish (Oh, using the word leftover doesn't make it bad). Besides, you just had it last night.

So that is what I did. I made tilapia cakes. I made what is known as a Green goddess sauce. Basically, non-flavored yogurt, capers, lemon juice(fresh) oh, zest it before cutting it, salt and pepper. Mix that and let it sit in the frig for about 2 hours. What? Two hours! Are you kidding me? I know most may not be able to do that, but if you can, do it.

Then I shredded the fish in a mixing bowl. Added two eggs, half a cup of bread crumbs, zest from a lemon(told you the zest would come into play), one diced red pepper, quarter cup mayo, half a diced red onion and salt and pepper to taste. Mix that together and formed into hamburger patties and put in frig for two hours...again with the two hours thing...some cooking takes time.

This is where it may sound crazy. I dredged them in flour and fried them in vegetable oil until golden brown on both sides. Not so healthy friendly, sorry. Reward yourself from time to time. Once finished, I plated them and spooned that sauce we made earlier on them. Wow! For fried food, it tasted pretty good.

Keep sending me your ideas. I love hearing them and trying them. Just remember something, we're on this journey of Laughter Life and Food together.

Like S'mores? Try This Recipe.

Well do you? I bet most of us remember making these at camp, sitting around they campfire. Who could forget the first time you got that marshmallow too close to the fire. I found this recipe and wanted to share it. If you like bananas, s'mores and cooking on the grill, I recommend you try this one. Let me know how it goes or if you have another recipe you want to share. Best of luck!

Grilled Banana S’mores

• Crust
• 1cup graham cracker crumbs
• 4tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
• 1egg yolk
• S’mores 
• 1tablespoon unsalted butter, melted
• 1teaspoon brown sugar
• 2medium bananas, firm but ripe
• 4cups mini marshmallows
• 1/2cup semisweet chocolate chips

1.      Prepare the grill for indirect and direct cooking over medium heat (about 400°F).

2.      In a large bowl combine the crust ingredients and mix well. Firmly and evenly press the mixture into the bottom of an 8-by-8-inch baking pan. Grill the crust over indirect medium heat, with the lid closed as much as possible, until firm, 6 to 8 minutes. Remove the crust from the grill and set aside to cool for about 10 minutes. This will allow the crust to set.

3.      In a small bowl combine the butter and brown sugar. Cut each banana in half lengthwise and leave the skins attached (they will help the bananas hold their shape on the grill). Liberally brush the cut side of the bananas with the butter mixture.

4.      Grill the bananas, cut side down, over direct medium heat, with the lid open, until they start to soften, 2 to 4 minutes, without turning. Let cool briefly and then score the bananas into 1/2-inch slices, cutting through just to the peel.

5.      Fill the baking pan with 2 cups of the marshmallows, making sure they cover the bottom of the crust evenly. Next, scoop out and distribute the slices of grilled banana, followed by the remaining 2 cups of marshmallows.

6.      Grill the pie over indirect medium heat, with the lid closed, keeping the temperature of the grill as close to 400°F as possible, until the marshmallows have puffed up and started to brown, 5 to 7 minutes. At this point carefully sprinkle the chocolate chips over the top and continue cooking until the chips appear glossy and melted, about 2 minutes. Remove the pie from the grill and let cool for about 5 minutes. Spoon into small serving bowls and serve warm.

Grill Time - Fish Tacos!

Beautiful day. Warm but not too humid. Chores done. Sounds like a great day doesn't it.

So what am I going to do now? I am going to make some fish tacos. Love them and never made them at home. Firing up the grill tonight and getting creative. I plan on making a roasted corn salsa, which will have grilled tomatoes, grilled jalapenos, grilled red onion, lime juice, cilantro and of course grilled corn.

For the fish, I will either use halibut, red snapper or tilapia. Whichever I can find. I will go to The Fresh Market for the fish and to a local farmer's market for the veggies.

The fish will get a rub made of cumin, ground garlic, lemon juice and a couple of tablespoons of ancho chili powder. I will indirectly grill the fish once the veggies are done. I will also toast the taco shells on the grill as well.

If you want to know exactly how this came out or want to try it. Send me an email or comment here. Also, if you have a recipe you are proud of and want me to try...share that too. Have a great day!

Who Remembers Your Name?

I'm sure alot of people do. Then again, alot may not. That may not bother you each day...and then again does it? Stop for a second and think about it.

You probably see the same people most days. In the halls at work, at school, even for your daily walk. Do they remember your name? Do you want them to? I'm betting you do. It's so easy in the hustle and bustle of life to not care about others names. Why should you, they don't care about your name or you for that matter.

I love going somewhere and someone saying, "Hey Michael, how are you." or "Good to see you Michael." Makes me feel like I'm part of something. Don't you love that feeling too? I know you do, who wouldn't.

It's kind of simple actually. Remember others. Remember their names. That means something to them, as it does to you. And it should. Now do me a favor, go out and remember someone's name. I know you will be surprised in what happens. I wish you the best of luck.

Memories

We all have them. Just by me stating that word, you started thinking of your memories didn't you. Some made you laugh, some made you cry.

Let's do something fun. Go to my playlist and listen to song number 14. Yes it's country. Listen to those words. Remember your memories.  I'll wait....

Did you just drift back to your childhood? Did it bring up memories?

If you want to share them with me, I would love to hear about them. Share them. I bet you have great ones. Don't ever forget them or who you are...I know you're special and not just to me but to many. Now, listen to it again.

Asheville NC - You Need To Go

I owe all of you an apology. I haven't posted anything in about a week. I went out of town. I went to Asheville, NC. Spent a great week with some really good friends. One of them even beat me at playstation baseball and football! That was humbling and fun.

Have you ever been to Asheville? Besides the Biltmore Estates? Don't get me wrong that attraction is very breath taking. But have you ever spent a good week there? That city is beautiful to me. If I wasn't where I'm at now, that is where I would want to live. And may one day...

The folks there are so friendly. They will embrace you into their lives and make you feel welcome. Who doesn't want to feel welcome when they go somewhere? They have a so many local restaurants. I have been there a few times since February and one comes to mind that I love to go to. Papa's Pizza. A family locally owned place. You walk in and smell the Greek Italian food. It hit me right in the nose. Any of you that know me, know I love food. If you're ever there, find this place and try it. It's on Leicester Hwy. Ask a local, they will tell you where it is and be friendly when they do (they may even tell you of other great places to try). If you go to Asheville, tell me about places that you go to or have gone to. I would love to hear about it.

I spent Easter Sunday with a group of folks, a family really, that was spectacular. I was never treated that I wasn't part of the group. We worshipped that morning and had a great dinner. Talk about homemade potato salad! A friend of mine, her mom made hers and I gotta tell you...amazing by itself (thank you for bringing that).

I will end this evening with these two things. One, if you have a chance, go visit Asheville NC and if have, share that with me. Secondly, I believe in you and your Acts of Kindness.

Relationships

Here's one we can all relate to. See how I just used the word relate in that first sentence in comparison to the title? I'm not going to define anything I promise. We all have them and some times we don't appreciate them.

Ever had a boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband, friend, mother, father, children...YES! That is a relationship. Did you ever take that them for granted? I know I have and still do. Do yourself, not me, yourself a favor...do not take them for granted.

I'm an expert in messing those up sometimes, as I'm sure we all can. It's ok. Learn from it. Promise yourself you will not take those relationships for granted. Nurture them.

Remember this please...you're in a relationship with someone. Now go enjoy them!

Random Acts of Kindness

Ever hear of that phrase? I know I've said it before and I'm sure you've thought of it if not said yourself. Ever stop to understand the meaning behind that? Until today, I really haven't looked into the definition. I have now and think we should look at it. This is according to dictionary.com, so keep that in mind when you read further that I'm paraphrasing.

Random is defined as: occurring without definite aim, reason or pattern.

Act is defined as: to do something; exert energy or force.

Kind is defined as: of a good or benevolent behavior or disposition.

And just for fun let us define benevolent,

Benevolent is defined as: desiring to help others; charitable

Seems pretty clear now doesn't it. Ever do something of this nature? A random act of kindness.

Ever been stranded and had a total stranger help you? Whether with assisting you when your car needed jumper cables or a few cents short at the store. How did it make you feel to know that somebody out there was willing to stop from their activities and help you? I bet you were thankful beyond belief.

Now I'm sure you've done this as well. You know what? You should feel proud of yourself. You helped someone in need. Not only did they probably thank you, but you may have walked away from that situation feeling pretty good about yourself. You should.

My point is very simple today. Whenever you have the chance to do a Random Act of Kindness. Do it. Believe that you're helping someone in need. Because once you start doing these acts, they lose the whole word of random...it becomes an act of kindness.

If you would like to share with me an act of kindness that you did or had happen to you, please share. I believe in your kindness. I believe that you're a good person. Thank you for reading, now go do an Act of Kindness. Besides, we all need some help from time to time and why not start now. Best of Luck!

Cheesecake Anyone?

If any of you know me, know I love making cheesecakes. I have about 25 or so types and styles that I make. Ever want to make one? Did you and it didn't come out so good. I've been there but kept trying and now I love making them and they are so easy to make. The recipe below is one that was suggested for me to make and I use my base for all cheesecakes I make and added some ingredients. Try this one.

Banana Creme

For the crust

• 20 vanilla cream-filled sandwich style cookies or graham crackers
• 1/4 cup margarine, melted

For the filling

• 24 ounces cream cheese, softened
• 2/3 cup granulated sugar
• 2 tablespoons cornstarch
• 3 eggs
• 3/4 cup mashed banana
• 1/2 cup sour cream
• 2 teaspoons vanilla extract (try to use the real stuff)
• shredded coconut for topping (optional)

Directions:

Prep Time: 30 mins

Total Time: 2 hrs

1.  Use a blender to finely chop the cookies.
2. Add margarine and blend until they are well combines.
3.  Press mixture into the bottom of a 10" springform pan and smooth it out.
4.  Refrigerate the crust while you make the filling.
5.  Beat cream cheese with electric mixer until creamy.
6.  Beat in sugar and cornstarch followed by the eggs (one at a time).
7.  Beat in bananas, sour cream, and vanilla.
8.  Pour mixture into crust.
9.  Place pan on a cookie sheet and bake in a 350 degree oven for 15 minutes.
10. Reduce oven temperature to 200 degrees and bake an additional 75 minutes, or until center is almost set, adding coconut for last 20 minutes.
11.  Allow to cool completely before removing rim of pan -- Before removing the pan, run warm water over a knife and slide a knife around the edge of the cake to separate the cake from the pan cleanly.
12. Refrigerate cheesecake, uncovered, at least 6 hours.

Sound good? I think so. Do you have one? Share it with me. You can email me that favorite recipe. If you want to comment here about your favorite, do that too. Now go put on that apron and bake a great cheesecake. I believe you can and will. Best of Luck!

Twitter! Yes!

Really? Yes really. I just finished signing up for a twitter account. I'm excited about it. I know many of you already do this, so bare with me in getting started. Now you can following Laughter Life and Food there as well.

Here is that link. http://twitter.com/LLFblog

Please continue sharing and enjoying Laugther Life and Food. I'm looking forward to continuing this journey with you.

Beer Can Chicken

Ever hear of that or tried it? Pretty cool and very good. I have gotten into just talking and not about food. Let's do food right now. Here is what I do for this recipe or disaster, depending on your stance.

Get a complete chicken, I usually get them from Walmart. Of course clean them...OK, tear them out of the package and hold them under water. Now comes the fun part. What seasoning do you like?  I'm waiting....

Coat that chicken in that seasoning. Inside and out. EWWW! Just do it(you can always wash your hands).

Now for the fun. Heat up your grill. Again I'll wait...oh and get a can of beer out and start drinking it. Just half.

Good deal. Here comes the fun. Now that you drank half the beer of your choice. Now put that same seasoning in the beer...just do it! Then place the chicken on the beer. Basically, sit the chicken on the beer. Is it sitting steady? Well make it sit pretty.

I use a charcoal grill, so I usually use apple wood on top of the coals at this point. Sit the Bird on the opposite side of the heat...indirect heat by the way. Yes the can holds the bird up. Cook it or smoke cook it until 160 degrees or about 45 minutes to an hour. If you don't have a cooking thermometer, until the juices or liquid is clear. Trust me. You will see that.

Take the chicken off the grill. LET IT REST! Do not cut into just yet. Go get that beer you wanted. Now do me a favor, enjoy that chicken. Do you have a recipe? I bet you have a great one. Share it with me. It's just that easy. If you haven't tried this...do it. I know you can. I believe you can!

Your Friends

Most of us have them and some of us more than we know. I was feeling down today, upset about not having a job and actually mad. I spoke to two dear friends of mine and they helped me settle down. One, she let me vent and the other gave me some ideas.

Ever have those days where nothing went right? You felt like you were playing poker with old maid cards? Not a good feeling is it. Then you shared with someone, a friend and BANG...you felt a little better about your deal. Now it may have not changed things but you felt better for a brief minute.

What do your friends mean to you? Are they your arm floaties? Did they help you through a difficult time? I bet they helped and some may have not even known it.  That's a good feeling to know that you have friends isn't it?

"Michael, where are you going with this?"

Sometimes we forget to thank them for being just that...our friend. Remember those that have been there for you and thank them. Just walk right up to them, if you can, and say "Thank you for being my friend". It goes along way. You just showed them that you appreciate them.

Share your comments to me, I want to hear them. All of them. Now I need you to do me a favor, go be a friend to someone. You may be surprised in what you find.

Do You Know How To Listen?

I know that I don't most of the time. It's difficult to do sometimes. We get so involved in our lives, that we don't listen when somebody actually wants to talk to us. Ever sit there telling somebody something, after they asked the question, and you're thinking to yourself, "They aren't even listening. Why did they ask if they aren't going to listen?"

Ever since starting this journey, I have started talking to more folks and getting more practice in listening. It is hard sometimes, esp when I get involved with the conversation...then I want to take over. But I have learned something....all of us have a story to share. Like I said a few days ago, we just have a hard time finding somebody who wants to listen.

I will tell you this, I'm not a trained therapist and cannot solve or point you in the direction you may be looking for, however I can listen. What's funny is, you're listening to me right now. I thank you for reading and listening. Sometimes we don't need answers either. Just want to tell our story. Do you have one? I bet you do. If not me, share it with someone. And remember, you may be that person who needs to listen. You may be surprised what you learn of the other person and also of yourself. Good Luck!

What I want

How many times have you heard that? Countless...I'm sure. Has anyone asked you what you want? Stop and think about it. Has anyone? Maybe a few times. Maybe not. Here's something fun. What do YOU want? That's right, I'm asking that question. What do YOU want? Don't think you want to tell me or think I care? Tell me.

I learned something over the last few days. I like to listen to others. True, I do the typing or talking but listening to others is so much more interesting. I heard a story tonight about superheroes, Green Lantern to be specific. That will be later I promise. Just listening was so much fun for me.

So please tell me what you want. I believe this, esp. after the conversation I had with a dear friend...I Michael Martin want to believe that somebody believes in me. Ever felt that way? YES!!!

Doesn't it feel good when someone believes in you? I do. Now go be that superhero.

Exciting Recipe to try!

I had a friend of mine send me a recipe that she told me about...I haven't tried it yet but it sounds great. Thank you for giving it to me to share. Here it is.

"Cherry chicken" in a crock pot
3-4 boneless skinless chicken breasts, 1 jar of chili sauce, 2 cans dark sweet cherries, 1/2 c of packed brown sugar. Season chicken to taste, put all ingredients in crock pot, cook 6 hours, serve over rice or noodles.

Doesn't that sound great and yummy! I know that I will be trying that very soon. What a good way to cook, in a crock pot. Most of us have busy lives and don't have time to cook. Try this. Let me know what you think.

See, it was that easy. You share some recipe that you like and may mean something to you and now others can enjoy your idea. Keep sharing, keep sending me emails with your recipes. Tell your friends of this journery too. In case you forgot, here is my email, msmartin7139@hotmail.com

Say it with me, "Laughter Life and Food"

Pets! What do they mean to you?

Here is one that most of my family and friends can to relate to just by knowing me. You all know of my dog, Gunny. He's a true mut. Part pit, part lab and all spoiled. Just the way I want him to be. If you've never seen him, think of the movie "Marley and Me". He's that color.

Let me give you a brief story about him to me. First off, he's turning nine this year so he has definitely slowed down some. But I got him when he was just over four months old...a true puppy. I've never had a dog by myself so boy was I in for a wake up call. He drank so much water that first day and I was amazed at how he could...then I learned, he had to pee all the time and everywhere!

He saved my life. I was low in my life and was drinking too much...to say the least. By having him in my life, it changed me and made me and continues to make me happy each day I see him. He has taught me something that I needed. Unconditional love. No matter what kind of mood I'm in, no matter the time of day, no matter even if I get upset at him, he is always waggling his tail (and yes, waggling is a word, here anyway).

As I write this, he is laying on the floor sleeping, he's great at taking naps! The reason for this, is to ask you a question. What does your pet mean to you? Almost for nine years, Gunny has been apart of my life. I would love to hear stories from you. If you don't feel like commenting, you can email them to me at msmartin7139@hotmail.com I would love to hear stories of what your pet means to you. I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for sharing.

Music is part of Life, part II

Why part two? Why indeed. I've been given some good information and song selections. I want more from you. A couple of you have made suggestions...your request has been added. Thank you for those choices. Now listen to your choice...exciting isn't it!

Isn't it funny how music can make you feel something? IT does me everytime I hear a song. Ever hear a song and it made you think of a certain time and place in your life? I bet you have. One that made you smile, cry, sing at the top of your voice, and yes the window was down in your car!  How about one that made your day look a little brighter?

A real good friend of mine said that I should ask you to tell me why you made that song choice when you do. I liked that idea. So yes, I'm now asking that. Not only do I want to hear your song selection but I want to hear the reason why. I will not post anything in specific but I may reference your story. Besides, we all have a story that we want to share, just hard to find someone to listen sometimes. I want to listen.

This is a great journey that we are on together. I'm very pleased that I'm allowed to a part of it with you. Now go enjoy your day!

Music is part of Life

That's true isn't it?! I've learned to add a playlist to my blog and only have a few songs, for now. Ever hear a song that makes you cry? smile? or just get up and dance? I need your help now. I want to hear from you via a comment or email of songs that you think I should add to the playlist.

I want to hear those songs that make you cry, smile and yes dance. That way when I've added them and you come back, which I know you will, you can hear your song. See there, we're sharing.

Don't forget to come back and see what happens with that pizza on the grill post.

It's Friday and time to grill

Any of you out there that have read this blog so far, may have asked yourself, "When is he going to talk more about food? Heck, that is part of the title!" Well folks, here is that post. The title to this speaks loud and clear. It's Friday and time to grill.

The weather is getting warmer, shorts are being worn, outside is the place to be, weather permitting. When you get home in the late afternoon, you walk around your home and smell that unique smell don't you? Then the thought runs through your mind, who's grilling and what are they grilling? I should do that.

I use a Weber black charcoal kettle grill. My favorite choice and has been for years. No lighter fluid, nope use a charcoal chimney. I love to smoke any kind of food I place on the grill too. Ribs, ham, chicken and even pizza. I typically use a mild wood such as apple, cherry or pecan. You can use any that you desire.

Just get outside with your family and friends, pull off the grill cover. Charcoal or gas...fire them up! It's time to grill. Oh, I will give you more information regarding the pizza on the grill comment soon. I know you can do it and you will be able to impress your family and friends by your creativity.

I want to hear your recipes from the grill. Please share. Now you know what I'm going to say...Laughter Life and Food is going to be a great journey!

What's this all about anyway?

Pretty profound question. I have been thinking about what to do with this since I started it yesterday. Some friends of mine who have read it, Big thank you to all of you!, asked if this was a motivational blog. A laughter site, or even a recipe cooking blog. The best way to answer this is YES to all.

Most of you that know me, know I love to talk to folks. Love to cook and love to laugh. So of course it is going to be about all of these things. I also want this to be something that helps us out through our days and nights. Ever just read something off the internet and was bored and got nothing from it? I hope this isn't that way to all of you and I hope you get something from this journey.

Stay tuned. This journey that I like to call Laughter Life and Food is just getting started and I don't want any of you to miss this!

Can you spell enthusiasm?

Of course you can...or at least you can now. Good for you. If you already knew that, great and if you didn't, well guess what?, you just learned something. Not real earth shattering was it? But funny thing about spelling enthusiasm, it's contagious in learning how to spell it just like it is itself.

Where are you going Michael? I don't want to read this. Stay with me for just a second. Ever talk to someone that appears to be coming out of their skin because they were so excited about something? I know I have. No matter what they were talking about, you felt, yes felt like you were a part of it. Whether good or not so good, you felt it.

Isn't feeling things what life is all about? The next time you are excited about something, no matter what, share it with someone. Watch their face. Watch them light up like a christmas tree. Then when someone shares something with you, experience that feeling. ENTHUSIASM.

I want you to share your moments of enthusiasm with me. Remember, we're on this journey of Laughter Life and Food together.

First of many

Hey all. I was told that I should create a blog by a great person. He stated that I like to cook and talk to folks. He's right. The title explains me, esp as the new chapters open in my life. I love to laugh and more importantly, love to make others laugh...at me if that helps!

The life part is about how things will be in my life going forward and possibly from the past(but knowing it can't be changed). No matter what. Good bad or indifferent. I will not pose to be an expert at the items I rant about, but I will give you my thoughts.

Food. Well we all like to eat don't we. I love to cook and learn new recipes. Sharing recipes is also great.

 Sharing websites with recipes, travels, and life. That's what I want this to be about. This is going to be a great journey and I can't wait for all of you to join me for Laughter Life and Food.